Sure, you could throw money at dating apps all day and probably get nowhere. If you think about it, when was the last time you actually got a message back on a dating app? Now when you’re trying for a free fuck, you’ll need to employ a number of new tactics.
Tinder and Bumble have become more about boosting self-esteem with matches rather than actually connecting. If You really want to meet someone who’d be down to touch you inappropriately in real life, you’re going to have to tread outside of the realm of dating apps.
1. Reach out to girls
The best way to talk to people is by messaging them either directly or through social media. That’s where people feel the most comfortable. If you reach out, you’ll find that you’ll be likely to get a response.
Plus, it shows that you’re willing to put yourself out there. And not just your dating profile self, but your real self.
Girls will appreciate that you have the balls to slide into the DMs. Yeah, rejection sucks. But when you risk it for the biscuit, you’ll find others will be attracted to that quality.
2. Be friendly
While I don’t mind forwardness, a lot of girls are going to get the wrong idea if you open with a dick pick.
If you want to be forward, that’s fine! Just make sure you’re being respectful about it! I’d make sure to keep nudity and explicit words out of the whole equation until you’re sure that they’re into you!
I’d start by talking about their day or a post they’ve made on social media! Comment on a picture of them that they’ve posted in their DMs and see what happens! My favorite hunting ground is Twitter, so I’d start there.
3. Cast your net wide and wisely
For lack of a better phrase: don’t shit where you eat. By that I mean, don’t message girls who you don’t want to destroy relationships with.
Odds are your friends who you’re currently in the friend zone with, won’t respond to this well unless there’s already been a lot of flirting going on.
So, don’t message any female coworkers or friends unless you’re 100% sure that’s what you want.
4. Be patient
When you’re trying to get at girls online, you have to make sure that you’re not totally ruining your chances by being too forward and by being too pushy.
You have to let the girl decide that she wants you, you can’t be the one that decides that she wants to get with you. So, don’t rush it along, women HATE that.
So, don’t be pushy, instead be patient and you’re much more likely to get laid.
Plus, messaging girls online probably wont come to fruition unless you give it a few days or weeks.
5. Don’t be a dick!
This tip kind of goes hand and hand with the one above… but make sure that you’re not being a total dick.
If you get rejected, be polite about it. If you tell the girl off or tell her she was ugly anyway, odds are you’ll wind up blacklisting yourself to an entire friend-group of girls.
Instead of lashing out, log off and take some time to cool down. You’ll find success, just try a different girl!